"The transition from adolescence to adulthood can be tough as teens attempt to assert their independence, often leading to defiant, angry and oppositional behavior. Now in an updated second edition, this is a very welcome, current resource that helps parents guide their teens through difficult times. For many years, I have recommended the first edition of this book to parents and used the strategies in my work as a clinician. "Your Defiant Teen" has been--and will continue to be--the first book I recommend to parents struggling with challenging teens."--Sam Goldstein, PhD, Editor-in-Chief, "Journal of Attention Disorders" "The transition from adolescence to adulthood can be tough as teens attempt to assert their independence. Now in an updated second edition, this is a very welcome, current resource that helps you guide your teen through difficult times. "Your Defiant Teen" has been--and will continue to be--the first book I recommend to parents struggling with challenging teens."--Sam Goldstein, PhD, coauthor of "Angry Children, Worried Parents" "Since the first edition of this book was published, growing evidence shows that the authors' program works. The second edition incorporates lessons learned from continuing research while maintaining the practical, warm, and supportive approach that resonates so well with families. Without placing blame, the authors help parents understand their teen's behavior and explain 10 clear steps for creating positive change by improving parent-teen interactions. The book also offers ideas and resources for what to do when professional help is needed. Although written for parents, this book is also a valuable resource for anyone trying to help an acting-out adolescent think and behave differently. Clinicians will find it helpful in their work with families, and school practitioners and teachers will find valuable ideas for understanding and working with defiant teens."Torrey A. Creed, PhD, Department of Psychiatry, U

Russell A. Barkley, PhD, is Clinical Professor of Psychiatry and Pediatrics at the Medical University of South Carolina in Charleston. The author of numerous bestselling books for both professionals and the public, including "Taking Charge of ADHD," Dr. Barkley has worked with children, adolescents, and families for over 35 years. His website is www.russellbarkley.org. Arthur L. Robin, PhD, is Director of Psychology Training at Children's Hospital of Michigan and Professor of Psychiatry and Behavioral Neurosciences at Wayne State University. Dr. Robin is a practicing psychologist with more than 35 years of clinical experience. Christine M. Benton is a Chicago-based writer and editor.

Introduction. I. You and Your Defiant Teen. 1. What Defiance Is-and What You Should Do about It. 2. How Defiance Develops. 3. What Does Adolescence Have to Do with It? 4. Is It Just Your Teen's Personality? 5. Where Do You Come In? 6. How to Find a Way Out. II. 10 Steps to a Better Relationship with Your Teen-and a Better Future for Your Teen. 7. Getting Ready. 8. Step 1. Making Positive One-on-One Time a Habit. 9. Step 2. A New Way to Manage Behavior. 10. Step 3. Contracts and Point Systems: How Teens Can Earn Privileges. 11. Step 4. Making the Punishment Really Fit the Crime. 12. Step 5. Tackling Additional Issues with Rewards and Penalties. 13. Step 6. Addressing Defiant Behavior in School and Conflicts over Homework. 14. Step 7. Using Problem-Solving Skills. 15. Step 8. Learning and Practicing Communication Skills. 16. Step 9. Dealing with Unreasonable Beliefs and Expectations. 17. Step 10. Keeping It Together. Appendix A. Sample Problem-Solving Worksheets. Appendix B. How to Find a Therapist. Resources.